June 10th, 2008

Dear Ask a Bitch,

~ How do you show confidence when you are really scared shitless to talk to someone that you are attracted to for the first time?

Dear Scaredy cat,

~Good question man a lot of guys we talked to share in your situation you are not alone! Confidence comes from being comfortable with yourself. The more you do something the easier it gets. We suggest next time you are out try talking to girls who don’t intimidate you. That way, when the girls you are attracted to come around, you will be able to talk to them with confidence and ease. You can also try using your lack of confidence to your advantage. Girls like the mysterious aloof guy. Just remember to be mysterious and aloof in her line of sight. She can’t pull you out of your “cool guy shell” if she can’t see you because you’re hiding in the corner somewhere. Don’t put too much pressure on the situation. What’s the worst that could happen she doesn’t want to hang out with you? No biggie, there are plenty of girls who will. Just hang out in the cat isle at PetCo sometime. Chicks with cats are easy. Good luck! You can do it!

Love ya bitch
L&V